nervousness shy hasitation in interviews plz help

[hand_in_hand]

hello

I am a jobless person of 2006 batch.I have not attended many interviews as my percentage is less in 10th so guys u can understand wht i mean to say.My qualification include

B.tech in Information technology with 66% marks
Diploma in mechanical engg 60%

knowledge of c++,java,networking concepts ,LAN ,security and ethical hacking etc

I want a solution from u all plz it is a very serious problem for me and this is
taking me to a situation where i feel lonely.

I personally feel that the main problem why im not geeting job is not my 10th marks or my my technical knowledge .problem is that i feel shy while talking to persons and this result in nervousness .I dont realise even for one time that i m confident about myself in all the interviews that i have attended.GD for me means i will be out and not able to speak even a single line their.
Since my all friends are placed and are busy in their lives i m the one and only left .Alone Alone no friends s with whom i can share wht is happening
with me .I m in a dark place now a person who is taunted by

parents (u will not do nay thing in your life)

relatives(After B.tech u are not geeting job)

sister(laugh and say u are skill less person)

please help i m trapped now my mind stopped thinking when i was studing i have hope that my hard work will pay but nothing is happening.No solution coming to my mind i dont feel to study for interviews no enthusiasm for job no Goals noting evrything destroyed

I want to get rid of this situation as i dont deserve this situation from live
I m forced to live like this .........................................


Plz help and
mail me at myspace.amit@gmail.com

[Spoorthi]

hi frd....
u know ur drawbacks then y dont u come out it?
u know c++,java.......try to choose a field in whic u r perfect and start preparing for some days............after tht make resume n apply for jobs.......first try to attend telephonic interviews so tht u can gain some confidence......after tht start face to face interviews also......first take step to attend for interviews....if u sit idle then nobody comes to u n gves job na......u've to make a step......its the person u who've to take step....just leave all those n set a goal to get job wether its in small company or medium or MNC...........just prepare well n prepare ur resume n start attending for interviews.....i wish u all the best........

[jazz_2k2]

Hey buddy...never loose hope thats it...even i got my job after 3yrs..i suffered a lot...from every aspect..even i tried for backdoor...i failed in that tooo...almost 30000/-.thinking for suicide..after that i came to one conclusion...i will try for 3months if i got any small job i ll survive or else take the stupid action...i started trying...1st month i got 1job call...i was not in a position to look at him(eye to eye)...only 2mins interview ...2nd month i prepared mentally to face the interviewer eye to eye..even i dont know the answer..why i have to hesitate..or afraid of him he is also like me only..he is keep on asking abt my self..i am telling him with some crap things...like wise building up confidence..in third month i am in such a way that i can talk what ever i want..after 3rd month i am not in a position to think abt the stupid things rather than i m thinking about the future...i got job after 1 yr...thenafter i never looked back...so dont loose ur hope....dont bother abt people who laugh at u..who scold at u..OK ALL THE BEST...i know the pain..but life is a game but v r not loosers....cheers

[nandhini_7]

dont loose ur confidene please be confident

[Spoorthi]

...jazz........hearty congratulations.............

[nandhini_7]

jazz
congratualations.......u have proved it

[jaya_jizzy11]

dont loose ur confidene please be confident

u wil get the job.........."hand in hand"

[faraz]

Hand_in_hand what ever your name,the thing about being shy is a common thing among most people .Its no big ISSUE..Most of the people are initially shy,its all in the head,many psychologists and doctors have said that the more you talk and speak openly with people,the more you can go out of your illusion that you are not worth anything.When people who are from non-It background can get jobs,whats wrong with you~~