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Your opinion on these days LOVE (bf & gf culture ) in youth

[pooja]

This days it has become common to have Gf or Bf but no true love only just time pass sake.It is effecting our indian culture.I am not at all against of it but i believe in true love not the one which is done only for time pass.But todays youth they are falling in love in such a small ages so according to me they should realise that this is not the age for them this is the age when they can think about their careers so for doinganything their should be someright time...


right...


pooja..........

[rajapattanayak]

I think now a daysyouth thinks that love is just a classroom. We have to enter into it.But i do believe love comes from the heart not from the eyes. Friendship is love and all other thhings are nothing but infatuation.We shouldn't make this love as a fashion.We have to think first what is infatuation and what is real love.I do believe if everyone thinks that love is noyhing but giving everything to the beloved without expecting anything from her/him then this world must change to heaven.


Thanks,


Raja

[prasanna]

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I agree wid what pooja was saying but unfortunately dis is only d age where ppl fall in love [img]smileys/smiley9.gif[/img].It has bcome very common for a common man these days 2 have a gf and he wastes whole of his pocket for d sake of his gf.We shldfirst think of our carrers at dis age and first settle in our life .After settling we can expidite in our own way.It has also bcome a fashion 2 have a gf or bf these days.Our parents struggle a lot for d sake of our future n we shld even think of dem also .Who r all those gf n bf who come in d middle of our lives.First setttling in our life is very important.Then we can think of other activities.


thanq frnz.

[Madhuri]

Even i agree with Pooja. Now a days love has become a game between two people. First youth should concentrate on their career and should stand for themselves then they should think about others.Now a days from small ages people are going crazy and spoiling their careers.But finally we should not forget our culture .

[faraz]

Well to define it precisely its not love between the youth but you can say its just infatuation.These things happen bcoz of the various films on display these days due to which the youth try to think that things in reel life can be enacted in real life.So, such misguided youth are propelled by their friends to go ahead with such love acts.In most of the cases there is loss and misery to one or both the parties involved.

[ulty]

Hello Friendz I am in strong favor of love in youth


Love marriages (the ones where you date, fall in love and decide to marry) are the best form of marriages ever. This is plainly because, I believe that god created male and female beings (animals or humans) to fall in love & this is entirely by natural instinct. It's only the oneswho are in love that know what is good for them. This falling in love is entirely natural However, we as humans unlike animals, must take (or learn to take) responsibility for our actions. We must realize that by marrying someone, we are commiting ourselves to making each other happy until death do us part, and such a commitment involves getting to understand each other very well & communicationg well with each other & making compromises so as to sustain a healthy relationship.


It is not that the love stories are new to our Indian culture. The greatlove stories of heer-ranjha,soni -mahiwal happend years before in India


These are the social values that are clearly missing in American society (oh, that Britney Spears wedding and 48-hrs later, divorce - publicity stunt - was such a blatant example).

[vinvish]

[img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img]Today,s love is as temporary as we
change our clothes.Today having a gf has become a matter of
prestige.The thinking of today's boys is that if they go around with
their gf with a good bike and give them some treats in hotels and
that's it.Even the girls expect their boys to have a good bike and give
them some treats. Whether this the influence of the films or the
change in the thinking of this generation we cannot actually find out
the reasons for it.Whwtever it is one should not forget what are
his/her responsibilities towards their parents everything shuld be
under the limit.

[Nani]

now a days love is become a fashion like wearing new clothes. every people are thinking that having a gf or bf is a status. but they are not doing real love its only infatuation. because of this time pass love nobody are believing in true love.


i am not opposing love but i am opposing the false love are time pass love. real love always encourage to develop us either in our educational career or any other career wherever this false love is giving preference only for roaming on roads and making hole to our pockets.


everyone has to be carefull when u r going to fall in love otherwise u have to face problems in future


LOVE- Loss Of Valuable Education

[Rathi]

That`s a good [img]smileys/smiley10.gif[/img]point what nani said ,that in today`s time there nothing like love . What is there is only infatuation,as without knowing any one how come u love someone.Today sexual desire have taken place of love.Every one want their physical needs to be satisfied.on the other side this has also become status symbol for every one to have gf.Even every one wants himself to get benefit from his/her partner in some way. Edited by: HELP

[moni]

Now a days having a GF or a BF is a passion. They are imitating the western culture.In college if any one didnt have atleast a GF or BF means all of them call him a " Waste " and they will tease. But we can have that one for a small scale refreshment(BF or GF)dont ran behind them only.really very glad to see that girls and boys are very friendly towards each other.But there should be a limitation for all.they have to acquire sheer knowledge about the life. Some times my comments will Hurt some BF and Gf's sorry for the interruption you continue your own kind of businees.

[varsha]

i dont think what we around in colleges and other institutes is love.
it just infatuation in some cases or maybe just a chance to show off.
but there are always exceptions. youth is a period to explore your
interests, whether it is in case of studies, career or
relationships.only through experience will a person realize what works
for him/her.

also we need to remember the forbidden is always more exciting...so i
believe too much of restrictions should be avoided.also healthy
interactions prepares a person to learn how to interact with peers in a
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[Rathi]

hi versha if the last line you wrote in your last post is in regard to my last post then i am very sorry.I apologize for that. Edited by: HELP

[sidhu]

Your opinion on these days LOVE (bf & gf culture ) in youth


Hi Friends,

Love is very much similar only thing that changed is in doing it, in the past people use to spend lot of time in loving his/her companian, but today it's not the case where we can find instant love stories which starts from chatting ,mobilephone call/messaging to opposite gender/same gender & it also break instantly , so friends , i like to say that Love is not a custom / course in a human life, its a natural feeling which everyone experience in life those who born with a good & strong mentaliy .

[BMantri]

Hello All,

I do disagree with some replies as they are saying we should not love from early age and at the same time they are suggesting for true love. Love happens when two hearts wants to be together. If you love somebody at early age, then how can you wait for your career to take off. Then after having a good career, you may not have that much of affection towards her. May be it happens that she may like to anybody else. SOmetimes, having career also, some social issues come on the way like family objection, caste problem, blah. blah.. So should one wait for all the hurdles to go out of one life and then he should love. I think at that time, he would be old or wnt get anytime in the life to feel the taste of love. I guess love doesnt see the age,caste and the position. So it is not the matter of anything, one should love if actually his heart says to love..