today's gd topic

[sharmashikha01]

Love Marriages

[Neetha]

I'm strongly supporting love marriage. In a country people are of different cultures. Just by seeing one or from the family we cant estimate a person.With out knowing a person fully and having a relationship with that one is very difficult.Also in the current world having a girl friend or boy friend is changed as fasion. So why should we change?

[faraz]

Its easy to say to strongly support love marriages,but the fact is in the name of marriage people who are innocent and gullible are being cheated and most of the times the lover stories ends in disaster.If you want to know a person consult his/her neighbours or family relatives, that doesn't give one the liberty to choose one's partner .How many cases are there where women have been cheated and denied justice.No one approves of love marriages, its irrational to approve of it.You can check any data govt . or pvt. love marriages means disaster especially for the women.Every other day u see a case of eloping or boys just leaving their love for a new found love.At a young age there is only infatuation not love.Its absurd to think of any love marriage to say the least.If your daughter marries a person of her choice wand has a pre-marital relation with a stranger ,what face will you show ur society!!

[GulshanVerma]

I m favour in the love marriage.Because now a days there r different culture in india.We can't make the marrie to the unknown person(m/f).Because before knowing ro any one how could we know each & every thing abt them.In love marriage we able to know the each & every thing abt the some one.What is the nature,culture,attitude,altitude.

[ramu_325]

hai friends its very difficult to say whether love marriage is better or arranged marriages are bitter.it is just tossing a coin.to my knowledge arranged marriages are good as our parents who are our well wishers see on all sides ie abt the opposite and deside a match.so we should obey them.more over we are seeing many cases in our daily life where love marriages are ending in disasters.

[wycelfjean]

in my opinion ,i prefer love + arrange marriage

[shantiprateek]

Yeah,I support the love marriage. It is not only the fashion but also a demand of time .In today's globalaized world where professionalism is taking over the family life, where the people not getting to much time to spent with their family. So his /her spouse should be like this that should understand counterpart deeply. But love marriages is not only based on emotion but also on mental level of both of counterpart not like that we have seen in one of the hindi Movie "KHAWAISH" OR in "AKELE HUM AUR AKELE TUM ". IN the love marriage the counterpart should give the time to mature their love before taking any final decision

[sorajesh]

According to me love marrage is best because before marrage,In case of arrange marrage the girls are not intrested in going to her husband house ,where as in case of love marrage girls are egarly waiting to go to her husband house.they are not afried ,whereas they are intrested and enjoy their life.

[monica_0285@yahoo.com]

I really appreciate love marriage and will prefer too since marriages are commitment of two person and all of us must understand our partner first.
in this we are not bound & restricted to particular person.we can freely choose our companion.marriages are for life time so our spouse must understand us and our needs and only love marriages allow us to do so.

[TAM]

Those who won the love win the life. But those loss the love win the life. But Most of us prefer the first

[vanita]

Hi frnds,

According to me, arranged marriages favours well than love marriages. Knowing about our spouse family is equally important as knowing the boy/girl . In love marriages, 1 st preference is given to knowing the boy/girl, in most of the cases, the family background is left in dark whereas in arranged marriages, family background is given the 1 st preference n v r given a chance to talk with the boy/girl bfore v get tied up in this bond.
" love is between two hearts n marriage is between two families"

[Rajani Devi]

"Marriage is not only between two families but also between only two hearts.If the family background is good then that (m/f)also good.No it is not possible.Eventhough family background is bad but her behaviour is good then how we about it
so,i prefer love marriages"

[sveta]

Love marriage is good as it makes the bond of understanding stronger.It is much better to spend your whole life with a person you know than a person who u dont knw. Also when 2 persons know each other then their all controversies, loo-poles will be known to each other. So after marriage there are less chances of misunderstanding between them.And who gaurantees that the mate find by your parents cudnt be fraud??

[himmay007]

i feel that lov marriages are the flavour of the nation rt now.generally love maariages happen b/w the people having simillar professional background.and if they work for the same company then they get to spend more time with each other so one doesn't have annoyance with the other.whereas in arranged marriage there is alwayz problem regarding the time which they spend together which develops ditance in the relation.also in love marriage partners spend more time with each other and know about each others liking and disliking.since bride and groom know each other before marriage they form comfort zone for each other.all these things are necessary for the success of marriage.